Message to ourselves why are we disturbed on the internet and our child within feels intimidated

Message to ourselves why are we disturbed on the internet and our child within feels intimidated we are reviewing the use of Memes at the ten stages. The Ten Stages are by their nature gentle and self-nurturing and Constant absolutist statements are quite jarring and really quite difficult to deal with on a regular basis. We find it hard not to feel guilty for not being strong and 'getting on with the job'. So when statements are used in absolutist terms they are often misused in a judgemental manner suitable for cultist dictatorial statements but not the reasoned gentleness of loving-kindness to all. We are in the de-programming forum not in a the parental absolutist voice forum.



There's a lot of ways we can help ourselves, and this sort of lecturing and stern, tough love is what makes us feel as tho it's our fault we're not better already.