It just will.
The question you want to ask yourself is, “What does this pain mean?”
Does it mean that life is against you?
Does it mean that you are worthless?
Does it mean that someone like you deserves to be in pain?
Or…
Does it mean that you are growing?
Does it mean there is something to learn here?
Does it mean that you can overcome this pain by changing your action over time?
Does it mean that you are simply alive and sometimes there is pain in life?
You see, it is never what happens to us that ultimately defines our lives, but what we do about what happens.
Your power is always in your response, never in your circumstance.
Now one thing I want to point out in a blog like this is that you still must heal. When tragedy strikes, there is a natural healing process that has to take place.
To just try to wish it, chant it, green juice it away – won’t work.
There are feelings that need to be felt, things that need to be said and a whole grieving process that has to be gone through.
This is not a blog asking you to do a spiritual bypass where you just pretend something never happened. On the contrary, this is about getting real about what happened, feeling your feelings fully and once you have allowed yourself to heal, knowing that you are not a victim of what happened, you are what you choose to become.
Are you letting yourself fully feel?
Are you letting yourself have space to allow your emotions to come to the surface?
Can you see that in the long run you are not a victim, you are so much more than that?!
When life gets dark, that’s when we get to discover our true Light at the Stages.
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